Even though they are members of the royal family,Meghan Markleand Prince Harry have their own way of doing things.
The couple made the surprising move of fighting back against negative treatment in the media — and taking legal action against the British tabloids. Such aggressive moves, paired with Meghan and Harry’s candor about their emotions, flies against royal precedent andQueen Elizabeth‘s stoic “never complain, never explain” approach to the press.
A source close to the royal household also fears the Duke and Duchess of Sussex’s approach may backfire in the longterm.
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“He sees the pain of his wife and the attacks she faces, and he wants to try to sort it out,” the source says. “It is kind of heroic in a way, but also misguided. It would be better to build relationships with the media.”
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Towards the end of their recent royal tour, which saw the Duke and Duchess of Sussex visit South Africa with 5-month-old son Archie (Harry also traveled solo to Angola, Botswana and Malawi), it was revealed that Meghan hadlaunched legal action against theMail on Sundayfor publishing a private letter she sent to her father. It emerged days later thatPrince Harrywas alsotaking legal action againstThe SunandThe Daily Mirrorover alleged interceptions of his cell phone voice mails.
“Look, part of this job and part of any job, like everybody, means putting on a brave face and turning a cheek to a lot of the stuff. But again, for me and for my wife, of course, there’s a lot of stuff that hurts — especially when the majority of it is untrue,” Harry said of the media scrutiny in the new documentaryHarry & Meghan: An African Journey, which debuted in the U.K. on Sunday.
When asked how long she can manage the constant onslaught of attention, lack of privacy and ongoing tabloid rumors, Meghan revealed in the documentary that she just takes “each day as it comes,” adding, “I think the grass is always greener. You have no idea. It’s really hard to understand what it’s like. I know what it seems like it should be, but it’s a very different thing.”
Recalling her conversations about the topic withPrince Harry, the mom of one said, “I have said for a long time to H, that’s what I call him, ‘It’s not enough to just survive something. That’s not the point of life. You have got to thrive. You have got to feel happy.’ “
Meghan added, “I really tried to adopt this British sensibility of a ‘stiff upper lip.’ I really tried, but I think that what that does internally is probably really damaging.”
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AlthoughPrince Williamdid not make a public statement on Harry and Meghan’s recent struggles, he reached out to his brother and sister-in-law following the documentary’s airing.
“Watching that, it would be hard not to have compassion and want to check in and see if they’re okay,” says a source. “That’s a very human reaction.”
source: people.com
